Tuesday, July 21, 2026

A First-Timer's Guide to Aruba: How We Fell in Love with One Happy Island

One of my favorite things to do is write, and if I had unlimited vacation time and an unlimited travel budget, I'd probably spend my days traveling the world and writing about it. Since that's not exactly in the cards, I'll happily stick with my day job and squeeze in adventures whenever I can.

After Jason and I celebrated our 25th anniversary with a week in Aruba, so many people asked about our trip that I thought the easiest way to answer everyone was to put it all in one place. I had so many people asking the same questions: Where did you stay? Was it safe? Should we rent a car? Was it worth it?

Rather than answer the same questions over and over, I figured I'd put everything in one place. Everyone experiences destinations differently, so if you’ve been to Aruba, you may have a completely different opinion. These are simply two first-timers giving their honest opinion after spending a week on what they call One Happy Island.

If Aruba is on your travel bucket list, here's everything we'd tell you.


Why Aruba?

We didn't throw a dart at a map. We chose Aruba very intentionally.

1. Safety mattered.

This was probably the biggest reason.

Aruba consistently ranks as the safest Caribbean destinations, and the U.S. Department of State maintains a Level 1 travel advisory ("Exercise Normal Precautions"). Their crime rate is very minimal, and their unemployment rate is 2%. Their livelihood depends on tourism, so they do everything in their power to keep it as safe and welcoming as possible, and that was very evident on our trip.

I'll put it this way: we felt safer walking around Palm Beach at night than we do in plenty of places back home.

That freedom completely changed our vacation. We never felt trapped inside a resort because we were afraid to venture out.

2. The water is ridiculous.

Pictures don't do it justice.

The water is the brightest shade of emerald green you've ever seen in a travel magazine, and the snorkeling is unbelievable. Aruba is also unique because it isn't the lush tropical island you might picture. It's actually a desert island filled with cacti, volcanic rocky coastlines and landscapes that make you feel like you're on another planet.







3. Sharks.

Yes, I know. Most people don't choose vacation destinations based on shark statistics, but I am apparently not "most people."

One of the things I loved was that shark sightings around Aruba are extremely uncommon, with only one recorded shark attack in the island's history. I spent the entire week snorkeling without constantly wondering what was behind me.

Peace of mind is priceless.

4. The people.

Aruba isn't called One Happy Island for nothing.

We never encountered one rude person.

The locals primarily speak Papiamento, but nearly everyone also speaks Dutch, English and Spanish, making communication incredibly easy for visitors.

Everyone, from restaurant staff to taxi drivers to tour guides, treated us like family.

Where We Stayed

This is going to sound contradictory after everything I just said about getting off the resort.

We stayed at the RIU Antillas, an adults-only all-inclusive resort. "But if you planned to explore the island...why pay for all-inclusive?" Great question.

For us, it came down to convenience and value.

The cost was actually comparable, if not cheaper, to several non-all-inclusive resorts we considered. Since meals, drinks (and dranks 😉), and snacks were already included, we could stay on the beach all day without changing clothes and heading into town every time we got hungry.

If we wanted to eat somewhere local, we did. If we wanted to stay at the resort all day, we did that too. Best of both worlds.

It also never felt overcrowded. We never struggled to find beach chairs or an umbrella. They also had nightly entertainment, including live music, karaoke, and shows.

And yes... No kids. I love children. I truly do. For this vacation, we wanted a peaceful and relaxing experience, and that’s exactly what we got.

We also loved staying on Palm Beach. Everything was within walking distance, which meant fewer taxi rides and more spontaneous exploring. If you're a first-time visitor who enjoys restaurants, shopping, and nightlife, I honestly think Palm Beach is hard to beat.

As an added bonus, some of the best snorkeling we experienced happened directly off our own beach. We found a large starfish, pufferfish, parrotfish, and so much more right in our own backyard. Definitely invest in your own snorkel gear to bring with you.


Should You Rent a Car?

This was the biggest debate we had on the entire trip, and it may be the most controversial answer compared to others' experiences. We decided not to.

Partly because we wanted a vacation from driving. Partly because once we left the resort, our phones didn't work. (We intentionally skipped an eSIM because we wanted to disconnect.) And partly because everything is a roundabout.

No stop signs. No traffic lights. No Google Maps. Considering half the people back home still treat roundabouts like advanced calculus, we decided to leave the driving to the professionals.

Taxis are government-regulated, so prices are standardized, and honestly, some of our favorite conversations all week happened with our drivers.

They became photographers, tour guides, gave us restaurant recommendations, and were island historians. Worth every penny.

Don't Just Sit on the Beach

Seriously. Go see Aruba.

The island is only about 19 miles long and roughly 6 miles wide, but it packs an incredible amount into that space. Also, don’t just go to your beach. There are so many different beaches on the island with different experiences. Venture out!

We booked everything through De Palm Tours right from our resort. Our adventures included:

🐠Snorkeling excursion
🌅Sunset cruise
🚙UTV island tour
🌊Jeep island tour
🐚Submarine tour

For both of us combined, excursions totaled around $1,100. We made sure to budget for excursions, and they were each worth every penny. Even with all of that, we still managed four to five hours on the beach nearly every day, plus one full beach day.

Don't leave Aruba without seeing Arikok National Park, the Natural Pool, the California Lighthouse, the caves, and the rugged side of the island that looks nothing like what you’d expect.


Cash or Credit?

Bring both. Credit cards are accepted almost everywhere, and I would highly suggest using a credit card over a debit card in any foreign country. You will need to carry some cash, especially smaller bills, for taxis and tips. And trust me, you will be tipping a lot, but it’s all hard-earned. There are also casinos, if that is your thing, so you will need cash for those. Most public bathrooms also cost $1 to use.

Random Things I think are important to know

Diet Coke doesn't exist.

If you know me personally, then you know I needed thoughts and prayers. They only have Coke Zero. If you're a Diet Coke addict like I am, you know it’s not the same. I survived, but it was the first thing I bought after entering the airport.

Airport customs were easy.

Everyone told us to arrive three hours early for our flight home, so we did. We went through the entire process in about ten minutes. I'd still arrive early because you never know, but don't stress yourself out over customs. As for the flights, we flew out of New Orleans to Orlando, and then Orlando to Aruba with Southwest. The flight to Aruba was less than three hours, which flew by quickly.

Pack tennis shoes and water shoes.

I honestly thought I'd live in flip-flops. Wrong. Very wrong. There were many times I wished I had tennis shoes. Also, our water shoes came in very handy on several of our excursions where you had to walk on rocks and uneven terrain.

Don't overpack.

You'll spend most of your vacation in a swimsuit, even on excursions. Take a couple of cute outfits for photos. The rest? Comfort wins.

The wind.

Lord, have mercy. The wind. You'll be thankful for it because it's hot. You'll hate it because your hair has absolutely no chance.

Ladies: pack ponytails and claw clips. Don’t even bother with a curling iron.

Guys: tighten your hat or prepare to donate it to the Caribbean Sea.

Ironically, it was hotter back home in Mississippi than it was in Aruba. The breeze makes all the difference. The natives kept apologizing for the heat, and we had to constantly remind them that this was a breeze compared to the heat and humidity back in south Mississippi.

Buy the aloe.

Aruba is famous for it for a reason. You'll see aloe stores everywhere, and there is one conveniently located in the RIU. Their lip balm may actually be the greatest Chapstick I've ever owned. It’s also a great idea for purchasing gifts to bring back home. You can tour the aloe factory, but we didn’t get a chance to.

How long to stay?

We arrived on Saturday and left on Friday. Although we packed a lot in those six days, it will always feel like it wasn’t enough. We could have stayed a month, and it wouldn’t have felt like enough time. We loved it that much. If you make the decision to go, then my advice would be to stay a full week to experience the most out of Aruba.  

Final Thoughts

Some vacations are fun. Some vacations become part of your story. Aruba became part of ours.

Now that we've seen nearly every landmark on our list, I think our next trip will look a little different. We'll slow down, spend more time discovering local restaurants and hidden beaches, and simply enjoy being there.

Because that's the thing about Aruba. You don't really understand why people keep going back until you've been.

Now we get it.

And yes, we'll absolutely be back.






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